Many women may casually date multiple guys, but some modern-day women are practicing polyandry: You might be surprised. The poly world wants you to be completely open. Very active in her local kink community as a mistress, Jislaaik is currently seeking three husbands in a scenario she likens to Big Love, only with "a higher level of control and authority on my part, and way better sex. I wouldn't mind sharing that either. I do not have time, nor do I have the energy or desire to have more stress and drama in my life. While regular posting is now disabled, you can continue to view all threads until the end of June
It's not something that is widely discussed in the polyamorous community, unless someone is correcting a misunderstanding," says Effy Bluea New York City-based life coach who specializes in unconventional relationships.
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Blue has multiple male partners herself and says more men offer more emotional support—not to mention the sexual benefits. As an aside, my own appreciation of different physical types has broadened -- I strongly suspect that much of the obsession with arbitrary physical ideals has a lot to do with people holding out for the "best" partner and, not trusting one's own judgment, going with to public opinion on the matter of what constitutes that. The poly world wants you to be completely open. MakeUTingle Joined: OkCupid offers a curious and fun mix of singles looking for all sorts of partnerships, and for whatever reason, it has attracted a significant number of polyamorous singles and couples looking for other folks to share their love with. And personally, I wouldn't do it anyways.